our country we live in goes into other countries, the far east, the middle east, some African countries, and eastern Europe force these countries to change there rules, communism, socialism, and how other countries reign on there people.
I think you need to be very specific with examples of the U.S. doing this.
Because the way you are expressing it implies the U.S. is going into random countries on a whim and just demanding they change their government.
Otherwise there seems to be 3 general means the U.S. goes into a country and forces change.
1. The people or the recognized government of a country ask the U.S. to come in and help enact change (Vietnam, Korea).
2. The U.S. through clandestine operations like training or arms sales helps "rebel" groups fight against a regime, which is usually illegal (Iran, Afghanistan, South America).
3. A country either attacks U.S. allies that ask for help in defending themselves, with the invading country being occupied by the U.S., or a country represents a "clear and present danger" to the U.S., so the U.S. invades and removes the danger and tells the people to choose someone else (Japan, Iraq).
You mention "some African countries."
But that's too vague.
Which African countries and when?
Are you talking about currently? During WWII? Or in the 60's-70's when the U.S. tried to send capital goods demanding the government improve schools to effectively use it and help improve infrastructure?
you will follow the laws of democracy set by our founding fathers
I don't believe the U.S. has ever done that.
The founding fathers didn't invent "the laws of democracy."
"Democracy" simply = "allow the citizens of your country to choose the government/people they want to represent them."
Democracy is what makes America great
Not really. The competitive advantages enjoyed by the U.S. is what makes America "great." This includes things like an educated, mobile, adaptable workforce, natural resources, an abundance of food wealth.
Government, when chosen by the people, is ultimately a reflection of the people.
Government doesn't define the people.
People and what they do with what they have is ultimately what makes a country "great."
Not its system of government.
At best a government subsidizes nationally what "great" people do locally.
The system of government of a country simply influences the efficiency of its competitive advantages.
Democracy is more flexible in adapting to necessary change thereby making it more efficient in comparison to other systems of government.
I mean if China would of came to us and say" America you going to be this or that or we will war, we would defiantly hate that.....right?
Kinda depends if the government was causing widespread starvation, disease, gassing its own citizens, invading/attacking/nuking its neighbors for religious reasons, stealing international aid packages to sell for weapons to kill anyone that tried to organize and change the government, or kept trying to terrorize China.
Do our vote really matter?
Not as an individual, but as a community.
Might as well ask if any one particular drop in the ocean matters.
Not really. But rain wears down mountains. And those are individual drops.
what can we do to make a difference?
Become more influential within your community, among your friends and family and those you have a personal relationship with, develop more personal relationships with people you see every day.
Realize "differences" are going to take a long time and for the most part are going to be subtle and cumulative, rather than immediate and extreme.