should be, and are are not the same

the bully cant hit the little kid over and over and then just insist the little kid get over it and start acting as if they are all the same(hoping that the bully dont feel like hitting him again)

reality sucks, but we can always keep working on making it better instead of settling into it

Except I have seen you say to not hold everyone accountable but many hold all whites accountable for the part

Well this is about white discrimination. Think it is obvious

It must be nice for some to pick and choose what is racist and unjust. And what is not. that way they can tailor it to their agenda ;)

so obvious.. but good for a laugh Lol

Equality at its finest

must be nice to be on the end that can just dismiss it and not worry about living it or having loved ones who do

ha ha ha

let me put it more clearly

if you are left out of an event or underrepresented, what is YOUR answer of what to do?

either force others to include you more or make your own event to make sure you are included?




and if you make an event, do you feel just the same and just as guilty or wrong as the party whose exclusion of your participation caused you to need to make your own?

what is the NON racist way to have representation of your race if others do not represent it?

what is the NON sexist way to have representation of your sex if others choose not to represent it?

If those in power represent mostly others in power, how is it a double standard for the powerless to then represent themselves ...

please explain how this is in any way a double standard

I think you just love the drama! You tried it with me the other day saying about how bad the english treated the Welsh!
That was years ago, oh but of course they still take!

No. I love to create a balanced representation for the many who read these posts without participating ...

no drama, just more than one point of view represented ...

and I didn't say anything about the English or the welsh, as I am neither and live near or with neither(anymore).

I repeated what someone who is welsh gave as their perspective about the english.

It never comes across as balanced, it seems you promote you're view and put down a view you don't agree with!

how did I put anything down by disagreeing with it? How do I disagree any differently than anyone here?

It's fine disagreeing but not too be masked as balanced!

if it isnt balanced its due to overrepresentation of those who make these comments to me with out controversy or complaint from anywhere


as a minority female, these are the kinds of posts that prompt my responses:


instead of minorities trying harder and studying more, it's easier to play a race card

would you rather have a black doctor, who really didn't do anything in school,

thats just a silly, liberal answer...i take it you think all minorities should get a diploma without merit?

To bad you can't see beyond your white blinders..

Of course you are not responding to the firefighter statement, because that would go against your agenda.

ol.. try doing your homework on the subject. as you speak of discrimination all the time.. here is a classic case

I think you just love the drama!





and then I get accused of being unbalanced, or baiting, or putting others down ....

I post/respond to what others post, taking the conversation in a different direction only requires EVERYONE to speak in a different manner ...

I read a bit of the fire fighters but got bored, we have the same sh it here, if a minority doesn't get the job they always play the race card or poor card!

too bad the history makes it seem a possibility ...

yet, fortunately in america claiming and proving things are a different standard ....

Balanced!!??. Lol. there is nothing balanced when it come to your views on whites... nothing.

You live in the past.. and love it.

"I love to create a balanced representation for the many who read these posts without participating"

So now you post as a community service?. To the "silent ones" who agree with your views, but will not comment.

And how do you know your audience is actually.. out there?

I have not posted views on 'whites' except to counter the posts made about blacks. That is BALANCE.

I live in the present, even when the present is people bashing or commenting on blacks or implying what is wrong with them.

I wouldnt say I am posting as a community service, but I am absolutely aware that in life you never know who is watching your or listening to you or reading your words, or the impact it might have on their lives.

I know the audience is there because Mingle has a neat column called 'views'

Did you ever think that your " audience" is there just for the laughs generated from the performer.. cause I don't see them jumping up on the stage with you... ;)

Bye Bye..said my two cents and the show is a .. repeat.

get a cup of coffee, take a breath, stop taking things and making things so personal ... is my only advice to you.

I very obviously do not participate to get anyone 'on board' with me, this is not a high school playground. I have the people who love me and care about me and people who speak to me with respect that I give the same back to,

those who dont, have their own problems to deal with, I only pity them really.





tired of repeats, change your own approach and get a different response.

easy peasy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nu4dupoC7EE