But its not about you big Sky its about someone like the OP has stated in her profile what she wants and her criteria and certain people ignoring it for whatever reason.
Whether they are stupid, cant read or willfully ignorant.
I know it's not about me, just saying how I go about things here. I happen to read profiles. Having something in the profile helps to start a conversation beyond small talk. Like I said, if there's nothing there to work from, I just move along.
But yes, I've had instances where women will message me with something like "I read your profile and really like it!", where I will test them and ask them what they liked about it. If they don't answer the question but change the subject, they didn't read my profile. An honest person isn't going to sound like they're working from a script.