I don't want help. I don't wish to pursue the world of dating/sex/relationships. I've made a decision to detach and forget it. I'm trying to find out how one can eliminate the desire for sex or companionship etc... I know it might sound bizarre, but that's honestly what I wish to do.
Go ask your doctor for some pills that chemically 'castrates' you.
As for the rest, I think what you are trying to do is denying your humanity.
Nr 1) Everyone needs love. It comes with being human and being alive.
Nr 2) Everyone has sexual desires. The thing is, if you'd be able to ' kill' sexual desire you will also kill the drive to create, to be spontaneous, to take action and so on and so forth.
Sex-drive is not just about sex-drive, it's also about the drive and passion to do others things (everything basically) in life.
And to be honest, I doubt you could separate these, as in get rid of sex-drive and keep the rest.
What I don't get... if you truly don't want a relationship, what's wrong with sexual feelings? You can still enjoy that by yourself. Sexuality is not about shagging someone, first and foremost it's about being able to enjoy the pleasure it brings you, enjoying your physical body.
That isn't tied to a relationship or another person.
Plenty of people don't have a relationship nor sex with another, but still enjoy their sexuality.
There's no one in the world who knows how to please you other than you.
I'm not in a relationship, nor sharing myself with someone else. I still wholeheartedly enjoy my sexuality.
So this is more than just not wanting a relationship...
And as such I agree with diserli: Get help