So much for respectable and no judgment eh OP?
Sadly these are your audience
Hey Up2youandme,
I agree 100%....I can't believe I ACTUALLY thought, I could have a decent non-judgemental conversation with people on this site.
But this further proves how awful people can be towards each other.
There is a HUGE lesson here...and one that WOMEN and MEN should take seriously !!!
When you are searching for a person to spend the rest of your life with...watch how they respond when they do NOT agree with a person on any topic or they don't agree with something you do or what Cause you believe in and choose to support.
Watch how they respond to someone who desires to Save the Whales, feed the homeless, how they act toward a gay couple, someone on drugs or a drunk.
Will they respond RUDELY..., will they cast JUDGEMENT, or will they respect your opinion and actually try to learn from your point of view?
It's important to see how a person reacts, BECAUSE... WOMEN,
when that man does NOT agree with you...he will be just as rude, ugly, mean, and judgemental towards you.
Is that the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with???
To often, especially ONLINE...people will be rude and socially unacceptable to other people. It's easy to hide behind the screen of your computer and say things you wouldn't normally say in a room full of people you respect. You say things that wouldn't pass the Mom Test. (If your moma was in the room...I bet you'd be ashamed of yourself.)
Ask yourself...would you want people to respond to you, they way YOU respond to people online?
Ouch...that hurts,, doesn't it.
37 Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’
38 This is the first and greatest commandment.
39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
Yep
"Watch how they respond to someone who desires to Save the Whales, feed the homeless, how they act toward a gay couple, someone on drugs or a drunk.
Will they respond RUDELY..., will they cast JUDGEMENT, or will they respect your opinion and actually try to learn from your point of view? "
I have no interest in a racist, bigot, homophobe, or someone who looks down on those less fortunate than they are, or hnates people merely for their country of origon/ religion.
Yet, every week someone takes issue with that...someone *I* didn't message....yet they feel the need to opinionate tell me how *I* am wrong, tell me why they wouldn't date me..
And, I'm like, dude...?
Did I *ask* you to date me?
If *I* see a profile of someone, and written in their profile is a dealbreaker for me..whatever it is..I do not message them to tell them
"hey..I would've liked to chat with you, but..there's this thing.."
No, I just go to the next profile..
Because why would said dude care that I find his profile offensive?
Some people must have a lot of free time..
That being said, *I* personally have absolutely NO interest in being in a poly relationship.
If that's someone's jam...good on 'em...just not MY cuppa...
Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
on Thu 10/04/18 08:40 AM