Very interesting topic. Most interested in comments that most comments posted by the people who never been married or have no idea what is sexless marriage mean.
You, who thinks that if there sexless life in marriage happens than you should divorce and start search as single. Simple logic take that conclusion that person in sexless marriage should give up kids, house, partner he/her love, friend, mutual memories etc. etc. etc... just because he/her have some natural physical needs...
Therefore you call that person to destroy his/her entire life for sex. But when someone said I looking for sex, you try to mentor that person to have love first...
That is paradox my friends, give up love for sex and don't get sex before you promise love...
Take it easy, that is not only 50 shades of grey, there is millions shades of millions of colors...
Matt.7.
[1] Judge not, that ye be not judged.
[2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
[3] And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
thank ypu for saying it better sex is sex a phy. need that don't usually have nothing to do with love you can love someone without sex been marry in open marriage we love each other sexual relationships was outside the marriage