And how often do "Perverts" approach you? lol

...i don't mind helping women out with some of their fears,

it is what nice boy friends should be good for in modern times.

We are taught socially to be fearful as We are physically weaker and therefore defenseless

I've had a few sketchy men try to approach me in parks and malls.

Unfortunately there is no socially acceptable way to meet women, therefore we are destined to play these silly games until we die or give up.

Sure there is, just talk at the store, at the gas pumps, at the coffee shop and anywhere.
Just chat and at some point things will click with someone.
This is just my opinion oldkid but I think you may be overthinking the whole thing......

...i have a fear of meeting women in public and preferred to get used for sex by women in private, first.

Sounds so simple. Are you saying you can just start a conversation with someone in the grocery store you have never seen before? I wouldn't expect the culture to be that different between Nebraska and Minnesota although you do live in a much larger community.

I believe a lot depends on your intent and the vibes your sending. If you're just being friendly and sociable, most people are receptive to that. If you're trying to pick up someone, your vibes change and could make them a little weary of you.

I find talking to people easier when I'm just being friendly, but if I'm attracted to him I get a little nervous for some reason, lol... That nervousness can be mistaken for something else by the other person, hence no interaction happening.

I think for me i would fear because Ive always been taught to be careful with strangers. Theres fear of being alone in the dark. Social media and news also play a role esp. In Kenya where rshps are a joke and marriage is a come we try thing. For me id rather chat up a stranger online and never meet them just to be social

I dated an ex sherrif he said
one of the drawbacks to pepper spray is if it's windy you can get sprayed. Pepper foam or gel is more effective

Actually, there is. I meet women all of the time.

I'm all eyes to see where this may happen. Doesn't seem to happen much in my life. On rare occasions at a convenience or grocery store and they are often very young or very old.

Dude...I see lots men in my age range in grocery stores (and various other stores), at the gas pumps, at restaurants (eating alone), at various social things I go to all the time..

Now, whether they are single, and would in any way be interested in me...I have no idea...
But, I am not believing you don't see women in your age range out & about.

None I conceal carry

Believe it Bluegrass. Most people in our age group are dead or soon to be dead. Sometimes they are just asleep, but they look dead.



oldkid, just give it a rest. If you would accept the fact that you will be alone for the rest of your life (which is not really that long lol jk), you'd feel much better. Focus on you, on how can you be happy alone. Stop blaming women. It's not their fault that you are not what they are looking for. Your obsession of having an active sex life at this age could be appalling to some women. Women want to be loved.. they are not just for your sexual pleasure. The most feared words for women our age is "I took the pill tonight." omg 2 hrs until that thing goes down.

I wonder whether you have ever had this experience: you are talking to a friend about your faith and they are looking back at you with a blank stare. They have no idea what you are talking about. When you talk about a relationship with Jesus, to them it is like you are speaking about an ‘imaginary friend’. It makes no sense to them at all.

Oh I can help you if you ready to marry I will find you a serious woman that keep ur life save