I'm starting to believe the women I meet tend to be shallow minded when the find out I have my eleven year old son. Do they think I wouldn't have time for them? Even women with children would rather have a man who does not have custody of their children. In my experience I find that women with multiple children find dates way easier than men with children.

I do however realize women my age have children already grown and do not want young children around anymore. Only my friends know I have a loving child and anyone I meet never really get to know my child, that seems sad but thats how it is these days.

Three years with having my child on my own has taught me to not trust women. I wonder what the next three years will teach me?

get a lot of money, they will stay,

I already bought the house.... Hahaha

may be telling them he's adopted and doesn't know

(with the kid's permission)

I’d love your daughter as my friend haha

hmmmm
if I was dating? I doubt it would bother me in the least
that the man I was seeing also had children
even if they were younger than mine

Depends how much of a twit having lots of money makes you. And anyway, that is not why you want someone to stay with you, not if a child is involved.

Too many women saying the same thing. Its difficult with children involved, you don't want them to have to meet so many partners while you try for the right one. Sometimes, it's just better to wait until they grow up a bit, but, I also think it is harder for a man to do that than a woman.

Nhi, the OP has an eleven year old son not daughter

Hi SoloPlusOne, I took a peek at your profile and it is almost empty. I'm guessing you have lost hope in finding someone who will love you just the way you are. Sometimes it takes longer to find the right person so keep your profile open. Who knows what tomorrow will bring.

I wish you all the best

Hi mzrosie, I did remove my profile not to long ago. After being bombarded with plague emails. It really seemed pointless to tell about myself after opening emails. My post was about being in public, mingling in stores or talking at work. Conversations come up and when I mention my son it's like the door closes! Hahaha Tomorrow and everyday is promising just not on here.

I though Nhi's comment was cute if she was serious. She may not know what what the "OP" means. Lol

Thank you and enjoy yourself, these posts are more interesting than reading the emails!

Ok Solo, I got it now... shame on those women huh? But perhaps when you talk about your son, it sounds like he is your whole world, the most important person in your life and no one can come between you and him. that maybe the truth but when you put it that way, it is a red flag for women that they are going to be a third wheel. If that is the case, you are not ready to date.

Nhi looks like she's twelve, so might just be serious about being friends with your kid.. but maybe not as she said haha

Welcome to the forums

Nhi,
"those eyes,
can send you,
crashing through the ceiling.."

only one person I know, who has those eyes
flawless skin..
and she's 50
and i'm telling no more..

which reminds me, of the the song
No more, no more, no more..,

(just rambling)

Where did you get this information from? I don't see it in my posting!

Too be honest my kids were grown by the time I was 46... And had no desire to raise another family..

At times it is reasons such as that why women around your age may stop all communication..

Has nothing to do with you or that you have a young child at your age it is due to they are seeking those that have the freedom to go as they please..Since their kids are grown..

It would be at least right if they told you why they quit talking to you but it is not always the case..

Myself I have always been up front when talking to those that choose to have kids later in life..

I said I mention my son! That means I'm telling someone I have a child. And someone who is not ready to date is a person not over their ex and aways talks about them. I've been on several dates with women and finding the one that is worthy is the challenge.

MEN ---- "Pay attention how information is added before any facts was established"

My topic was about how women run when they find out you have your child.

Is this Facebook?

I fully understand.... Hahaha

First off, I said perhaps.
Second, perhaps women ran away because of your attitude and not because you mentioned your son.

Perhaps...

Hi I think when you do have kids involved then don’t get them involved too quick,make sure you both certain you want a relationship.If you fancy nd the right lady then the young won’t mind you have a child,I like to date some one with kids as I have kids also and grandkids keeps you young.and can have great days out.hang in there someone will come along. All the best x

I'm a single mother of 2 boys. I don't get dates. I don't know if it's the boys or its me but rest assured I am not shallow.