Leaving an unhappy marriage. He is dismissive of my entire existence. He lacks all compassion and treats me poorly. Im not deserving of it. Its hard to live in a loveless relationship. My challenge is my kids. Will anyone want to marry me again and accept my kids?
Sometimes marriage takes work. It takes two to make a marriage and two to break a marriage.
You're unhappy right now. So you decide to give up on him?
Why did you get married and have kids in the first place?
Strike that, You did.
Why are you using a dating site while you are married?
People on dating sites are not marriage councilors. Plus you gave way too little information on your situation.
I'm gunna say NO.
No decent man will invest himself in someone who walks away from their marriage for such trivial reasons. Putting your kids future at risk.
Oh, you will find plenty of men who will treat you like crap and get some sex but you already have a man who provides for his family.
Perhaps you should seek marriage counseling and talk with you husband about this instead of running away. Its a high probability you loved each other at one point enough to get married and have kids.
Your kids need a stable environment.
Believe it or not, that's both of your responsibility.