why is it most men are just on here for women to pleasure them and that's all , it's sad really
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Tracey :

Bobs Your Uncle !!
I'am just a Wanker who Eats Periwinkles.

Boys will be boys

why is it most men are just on here for women to pleasure them and that's all , it's sad really

Women are useful for lots of things. Whining isn't one of them.

Life is all about pleasure, how two people find it is their business. As long as it is mutually pleasurable that is.

I am very good at whining though

that's fine but put it in the write up and don't say you want a relationship if that's not want they want

ultimately the majority of relationships are based around pleasure... why do some women hide from that? Why do some women expect love and romance instantly without any effort or anything?

I've had some good relationships come from pleasure, I've never had a good relationship that had no pleasure... don't feel the need to say it as i think most people realise that's how most relationships work?

I am very good at whining though

No guy wants a relationship, but we say we do cuz it's the only way we get laid.

if we are honest, women won't sleep with us. a small minority of elite men can "afford" to be honest and still get putty. the rest of us will die virgins if we don't lie to you :)

No guy wants a relationship, but we say we do cuz it's the only way we get laid.

if we are honest, women won't sleep with us. a small minority of elite men can "afford" to be honest and still get putty. the rest of us will die virgins if we don't lie to you :)

For me, I found on here most men are like this. That’s why I was laughing, just the brutal honesty that kills me. Why be a gentleman and respectful if you don’t have to be? (sarcasm). Lol

I also read discussions on the widowhood communities were many have given up on online dating for the same reason.

I want the same as you, but the sad reality is it probably won’t come from a dating site. In the spring I’ll start joining things that interest me and try to get out more.

I need to return to living again. To me, it feels like I’ve been dropped in another dimension, told to survive without an oxygen tank or like the children’s storybook about the baby bird that hatched well his mother was away finding food. Along the baby birds travels he asks different things if they are his mother included a rock. I need to ask everyone are you my Daddy until I find him lol

For me, I found on here most men are like this. That’s why I was laughing, just the brutal honesty that kills me. Why be a gentleman and respectful if you don’t have to be? (sarcasm). Lol

I also read discussions on the widowhood communities were many have given up on online dating for the same reason.

I want the same as you, but the sad reality is it probably won’t come from a dating site. In the spring I’ll start joining things that interest me and try to get out more.

I need to return to living again. To me, it feels like I’ve been dropped in another dimension, told to survive without an oxygen tank or like the children’s storybook about the baby bird that hatched well his mother was away finding food. Along the baby birds travels he asks different things if they are his mother included a rock. I need to ask everyone are you my Daddy until I find him lol