Thank you !

I guess "More Cash wealth and material Possessions" is completely different than Rich!

You know some... good for you! I speak in generizations because what is the point on speaking to the exception of the rule?

If you continue to think that way of all women then you need a reality check. To me it seems that you get your ideas from what you find in Hollywood or the entertainment industry. Yes I’ve heard of these women and they truly are a bad example to all women in general and a bad influence too. Not all women come from such backgrounds but there are those who went from rags to riches and did it on their own terms.

Julie you so Right!

Many people generalize but there are many exceptions to what they know.

They do not know All the Women in the World or even in USA!


I've dated Men who have less than I myself. I've worked for Yrs.

I desire a hard working Man or retired and one I'm In love with first of all.


Ugly Bad Personal experiences Usually made a lot of Men against marriage.

Ok ladies!
Good guy explained why.... don't ask questions you don't want the answers to.

We happen to be subject matter experts...because we are men! You ladies want to give each other advice about us, instead of taking the words from the horse's mouth - that's on you!

Okay then seeing on your profile it says your divorced what lead to it?

You know I did pose a question to MGG in the fact that how can a never married man know such things unless he’s been through it himself and what facts back it up and I’ve yet to see his reply. At least as horses mouth is better then a JA. My brother is divorced ,it was her who divorced him, and at least they share custody of the kids. Look we all have faults and failures but to pinpoint one sex is just wrong.

I have no problem taking info from Men who know what they talking about.
Most speak negative when they have had Negative experiences from Women they know are heard about from others.

Most Wise Men know not to generalize
All Women !

Oftentimes it is divorced Men that form bad opinions about all Women in general.

I was divorced and the fault was not on me. I still love men and have Never said all men are alike I know better. :)

All I will say about it, is that it was amicable. She comes over to my house often. I don't have a bad taste in my mouth.

Women initiate 70-80% of divorces, so your brother thing doesn't surprise me. How did he make out?

Well at first he asked her if she wanted to go to marriage counseling and she said no but he made it out okay. Like I said they share joint custody of the kids where he gets them one week and she gets them the next. She’s remarried and my brother has a nice girlfriend here in Corpus Christi while he’s San Antonio and when comes down stays with her. Technically this is his second divorce. The first one we figure she married him just so her grown son could have a father but it only turned out she became less of mother and a wife but my parents paid for the divorce. He’s not rushing this relationship and all is cool with that. If I’m not mistaken she works for a law firm (so tread carefully).

That's a good idea!

Yes it is. His work keeps him busy too. To all it’s best not to play the shame or blame game otherwise you make the rest out to be that way and that’s wrong period. Life is full of experiences we all can learn from and it will put us to the test.

You'd be foolish not to use statistics....

if 50% of parachutes fail to open when packed by a certain individual 80% of the time - are you jumping out of that plane, or are you gonna keep your azz on the ground?

It might be packed by one of the other 20%. As exciting as it could be, the risk is higher than the reward.

Who are you addressing in this post?

anyone that thinks statistics don't apply to them

Sounds like a manufacturing flaw. I for one wouldn’t go skydiving because I believe it’s better to be safe then sorry.

Now you understand men

drops the mic and walks off stage. :)

Yeah, I agree it’s better that way even coming from a woman’s point of view.