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Topic: If you could turn back time.....

Zee

Sun 08/16/26 07:09 AM

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If I could change things ...

Why worry about things you can't change? We have all made mistakes, but there's no point in worrying about them.

its not a question of worry.. sometimes we just "ponder or reflect" at the choices we've made in life and 'wonder' how things might have been different IF we'd have taken a moment and turned left instead of right..

also, reflecting on our past helps us improve our future.. regardless of how many years we have left..

Retro

Sun 08/16/26 09:38 AM

If time is taken as product like clock or watch, it can be for self satisfaction with wrong time..
But can correct the current n moving time by past time made or left unwanted blank questions behind..

TxsGal3333

Sun 08/16/26 10:02 AM

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If I could change things ...

Why worry about things you can't change? We have all made mistakes, but there's no point in worrying about them.

Humm "PeterB" if you are going to Quote me at least Quote all I said and not just half of what I said..

Due to my response answered the total question not just what you quoted~~

Never said that it worried me.. For what I said was that I would not change anything if it changed those within my life now regardless~~..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 08/18/26 06:26 AM

I'd want to change the morning of March 21st 2012.
That's when I fell down the stairs. Altered my life. Neck injury, real bad concussion and TBI.
The reason I cannot work and am forced to live of a very small income.
On the other hand side it gave me the freedom and time for personal growth & development which I couldn't have done to the same extent if I'd had to work a fulltime job.
Yet then I could at least live a full life, do things I want to do, incl. physically, that now are not possible.

Zee

Tue 08/18/26 06:45 AM

I understand english may not be your first language.. and I am in no way trying to be rude.. but I don't quite understand.. might I suggest using google translate as shown below my attempt?:

Ich verstehe, dass Englisch vielleicht nicht deine Muttersprache ist... und ich will keinesfalls unhöflich sein... aber ich verstehe es nicht ganz... darf ich vorschlagen, Google Translate zu benutzen?

Duttoneer

Wed 08/19/26 01:01 AM

I don't believe in Fate, that my life is somehow predetermined or mapped out and cannot be changed. I am reasonably happy where I am in life, made mistakes in the past like most people, and I am now fully educated by life's lessons, self taught. Would I turn back time, no, even though the roads I took were maybe not always the best ones, but they were the ones I thought were best at the time. I am content with where I am in life, could have been worse. I have lost friends that sadly never made it that far in their life, never reached retirement, and you count your blessings.

Duttoneer

Wed 08/19/26 01:01 AM

Sorry double post.

Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 08/19/26 01:02 AM

Zee

Wed 08/19/26 06:47 AM

I totally get what you're saying Dut.. life is what we make it.. and agree in many ways.. I just sometimes wonder what life cud've been if I had taken a different path, made a different decision, listened to those wiser than I.. too late now tho huh laugh

my dad used to tell me that I suffered more than others because I was stronger and could take the load where others cud not.. I've come thru, worse for wear laugh

but still.. I have managed to survive and come to appreciate the simpler, little lifes pleasures so much more.. I count my blessings daily..

motowndowntown

Wed 08/19/26 12:00 PM

If I could I'd probably write to that girl I met on the night train to L.A. years ago like I said I would.

Farid

Wed 08/19/26 12:52 PM

I bet (figuratively mind you) he is a certain old regular, whose mother tongue is not German, and might not actually be living in :flag_ch:

Zee

Wed 08/19/26 02:58 PM

I bet (figuratively mind you) he is a certain old regular, whose mother tongue is not German, and might not actually be living in :flag_ch:

Are you telling me that is your alter ego and being you.. actually speaks Farsi?? huh

I'm in a mood taday bigsmile

Zee

Wed 08/19/26 02:59 PM

If I could I'd probably write to that girl I met on the night train to L.A. years ago like I said I would.

boy did YOU fug up huh

laugh

motowndowntown

Wed 08/19/26 05:39 PM

If I could I'd probably write to that girl I met on the night train to L.A. years ago like I said I would.

boy did YOU fug up huh

:laugh

I was very very young. I fugged up a lot in those days. And still do really.

Zee

Wed 08/19/26 06:10 PM

If I could I'd probably write to that girl I met on the night train to L.A. years ago like I said I would.

boy did YOU fug up huh

laugh

I was very very young. I fugged up a lot in those days. And still do really.

I don't doubt it one bit

laugh

Marg

Thu 08/20/26 06:38 AM

Would'nt change a darn thing ....life has a way of getting you moving along a path ...good or bad... destiny I believe is ore determined.....learn from mistakes and move on to better and brighter things in life !!!

Farid

Thu 08/20/26 12:01 PM

I bet (figuratively mind you) he is a certain old regular, whose mother tongue is not German, and might not actually be living in :flag_ch:

Are you telling me that is your alter ego and being you.. actually speaks Farsi?? huh

I'm in a mood taday bigsmile

Only if by “speaks Farsi” you mean “has somehow accumulated enough Persian to make his alibi even less convincing.”

Zee

Thu 08/20/26 12:05 PM

I bet (figuratively mind you) he is a certain old regular, whose mother tongue is not German, and might not actually be living in :flag_ch:

Are you telling me that is your alter ego and being you.. actually speaks Farsi?? huh

I'm in a mood taday bigsmile

Only if by “speaks Farsi” you mean “has somehow accumulated enough Persian to make his alibi even less convincing.”

yup

Slim gym

Sun 08/23/26 08:36 AM

If I could change where I live at present , it would be Sweden.....I was informed last night that the gals dont wear panties on a regular basis .....Hmmmmm!!!

And if I could turn back time, then I would turn it back to Paris in the 1920s....and party on with all the great writers and Jazz musicians of that time ...

Zee

Sun 08/23/26 05:26 PM

don't tell me there's no flights outta TO to Sweden..?? it may not be that easy for you to change where you live.. but you can always visit bigsmile

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wow.. 1920 is only 2 yrs after WW1.. they might've had good writers'n musicians but not a time I'd wanna visit.. this is your "dream" tho.. enjoy drinker

motowndowntown

Sun 08/23/26 06:19 PM

Actually the Versailles treaty ending WWI was signed in June of 1919.

And I also think that Paris right after the war to end all wars would have been a wonderful place to be if you had some money, not only for the writers, artists, musicians, and poets, but also the night life. Up until June of 1940 anyway.

One bad point though, no penicillin if your enjoyment of the night life happened to be a little indiscreet.

Edited by motowndowntown on Sun 08/23/26 06:22 PM

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