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single father here raising a 3 yo little girl on my own....nobody is beating a path to my door to date me, i dont know if that is the reason or not, but i would not trade my position for anything in the world...

It's true that a lot of the people here have it on their profile. .no kids..and don't want kids!
One of the first things I let them know Is that I have two kids that live with me full-time and their my world. Some guys have been good about it..but some not so much.

i really like that package plan thing bcos u already have ur plan and anybody who is coming can either join the plan or stay out of the plan, i can my life for my kid but i wont change my kids life for anybody outside our plan

The hardest thing about being a single father is finding TIME to date.
If you have your kid 24/7 it's tough but if you have the time and still not having any luck it might not be the fact that your a single dad..JMO

you are so very beautiful . you should be happy with your mate if not time to move on . it will be hard for the boys . they will understand someday

Ewwww omg kids

no it's not wrong in anyway I feel telling the truth about having kids is a better way of finding the right one for you. I have five 2 girls and 3 boys and I'm divorced and doing it on my own I work have my place a car.

I believe that everyone has a right to find love again and be happy. Whatever happened to your past may it be a mistake or brought by uncontrollable circumstances, or for whatever reason, it shouldn't be taken against you. I have friends who are single dads and single moms, and I admire them for being good parents for I have seen how devoted they are to their children and I'm glad they found love again. Having children is definitely not an encumbrance for someone to like/love you or get interested with you. It is a matter of having SINCERITY and ACCEPTANCE. As long as you are honest and have the right intentions toward someone who is willing to accept you for who and what you are, the road to happiness is clear and full of hope for you. Goodluck to your search.

That's pretty true....it's kinda stigma considering the fact that most women don't want to be with a man who's got a child, basically they think you're a cheat or some terror for being honest but many times it's not true I can't because of my love life or admiration forget a soul I called into being its quite pathetic!

Hello. I admire u for taking care of ur daughter.

Yes I was a single dad for many yrs (untill they left home) I decided to give up looking for another partner while I had the children because as soon as I told them I had children well you can gess what happened I thought it was becouse 1 of my children had learning difficulties but it seems guy's with kids are all in the same boat

Oh just 1 more thing I've never regretted 1 single minute of my life with my children and I am very proud of them when they have grown up and you look back over the yrs I'm sure you will feel the same children always come first thumbsup:

I came back to this thread because once again today, probably more than once if it is like most days I am on line more than a minute to read personal mail, some guy with a kid is pleading with me to give him a chance.

Guys your kids are only part of the reason you can't get a break.

There are only a few things more annoying than a whining/crying kid and that list is almost always topped by an adult whining/crying about there life.

The one thing that pretty much guarantees to top it is a bellyaching Dad who is lucky enough to have his kids. Don't kid yourself plenty would line up for a chance to be in your shoes.

But the all around topper is the Dad who doesn't give a hang about demanding that a woman who doesn't want to do it (or do it again) AND is so Highly SELFISH that they try any means Fair or Foul to force the situation where their kids are involved.

It just screams ME, ME, Me and to whatever happens it still about making Me happy.

Kids don't come into the world with the job of finding you a spouse. They should NEVER have to live with anyone who doesn't want them at LEAST as much as they want you.

And wake up and smell the coffee if you are having to use your kids as bait to get a partner you have SERIOUS problems besides your kids.

It is because YOU need to clean up Your act. YOU need to earn and or manage your money more. You need to demonstrate personality, maturity, responsible behaviors, humor, and I otetests beyond making a kid and handing it over to virtually anyone you can corner into it.

Believe me in most of these situations I would be more willing to take the kids and leave Dad to whatever. It would be easier than living with a human drain dragging us all down.

Sound like an extream visual try looking at it from anybody's shoes but your own.

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I state proudly that im a mummy. those peeps that don't accept is a good thing anyway for you and your kids. anyone that wants to consider me for a friend or long term must accept my kid. and vice versa. I love my kid. wish yous well on your endeavours xx